Friday Feelings: September 5, 2025

Real stability has nothing to do with circumstances

Most people live on a rollercoaster.

When circumstances are good, they feel good.

When circumstances crash, so do their feelings.

That’s not stability, that’s just reaction.

The 7 Secrets flipped this whole idea on its head for me. I realized stability isn’t about getting life to cooperate. It’s about learning to steady your feelings, no matter what's happening around you.

And here’s the wild part… when you stop depending on circumstances for stability, your circumstances eventually shift to match your steadiness.

That’s when life gets good.

So ask yourself today: Am I letting the outside world dictate how I feel inside? Or am I choosing to steady myself first and letting life follow suit?

Because the truth is, stability isn’t something you wait for. It’s something you create inside first.