Jeff Buehner

Friday Feelings: October 31, 2025

October 31, 20251 min read

Becoming the Sultan of Your Own Destiny

Most people live as servants to circumstance. They react to whatever shows up, adjusting their feelings like sails in a storm, hoping life will calm down. But there comes a day when you realize the wind isn’t the problem. It’s your position at the helm.

The moment you take command of your inner world, you stop waiting for things to change. You become the one steering the ship. You choose what to feel. You decide what to believe. You set the course and let life follow your lead.

That’s when everything shifts. People call it luck, timing, coincidence, but it’s not. It’s you, stepping into your rightful role as the Sultan of your own destiny.

So today, before reacting to anything around you, pause and ask:

What would the Sultan in me feel right now?

Then feel it, and watch how life rearranges itself around your authority.

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